Like a coin has two sides, the front and the back; likewise people have two sides, which is positive and negative. Spiritual matters have two sides to it: the positive supernatural, which is divinely influenced by Guru, His angels and the saints; and the negative supernatural, which is an assemblage of deceit and evil perversion, and it, is commanded by liable or subject to change and his cohorts of demons and satanic human agents. Look through the issues you have at hand to know the perspective you are seeing, whether it is influenced by the positive or negative aspects.
Each one of us at any given point of time has the choice to look at things through a positive and a negative perspective. Everyday, each one of us goes through different things, god or bad; positive or negative. Eventually, it is for us to decide if those things are good, bad, positive or negative. We all go through hardships in life and any situation that arises is always looked upon as a grave situation and taken in a highly negative manner. To look at any situation in a positive manner is of utmost difficulty as we already have a lot of thoughts and emotions that co-inside in us making it all appear negative. The reason we consider such situations or the hardships as negative because of the environment and lifestyle we live which is influenced by the people in it.
We often forget what we go through may be very minute in front of what others may be going through at the same stage in life. We consider our problems or situations as the most difficult or negative thing any person on this universe could face. But the truth be told, our outlook towards it, is the only negative aspect of the problem and the problem is nothing but a learning for us a human beings. They say “Life is a learning and so are its circumstances." These situations help us grow in life. They make us understand how every situation can bring about some or the other good and benefit us, altogether turning us into Healers from Feelers.
Honestly, to take positivity out of such situations is not what we all are accustomed to do. We are rather accustomed to pick out negative facades from it. This is where your Guru comes in. Our Guru accepts us with open arms no matter how we are with him or in the outside world. He loves and cherishes us without choosing us for the good or bad person we are.
It is said every action and even the words of a Guru are full of learning. This act of acceptance is also a learning. A Guru helps us eliminate our negative points and helps us bring about that positive attitude towards everything and every being. We should learn from this and see situations more positively. As when we see things with a positive outlook, life becomes simple, full of love and fun. Hardships turn into mere challenges and one keeps growing in life.
To accomplish this one must have complete faith in his Guru. To strengthen that faith and bond with your Guru, one needs to do Guru Dhyan, Manthan and Seva. These three things help you see things with a positive outlook and at the same time become positive as well. They help you train your mind to analyze what you gain from every situation and not what you must have lost on account of the situation. Once the art of seeing what we gained instead of what we lot is mastered, we can move onto the next step of healing others.i.e. helping others understand situations positively and moving them towards the goal of being positive.
At the end of the day, we should all be able to choose the side of the coin we want to look at i.e. the positive or the negative. For it is said. "One positive mind can make 4 minds positive. And, one negative mind can make 8 minds negative."
